"fat little girl" 
was 6 years old asking my uncle a question unrelated to my weight

"fat little girl"

was 6 years old asking my uncle a question unrelated to my weight

"woah, thats a lot of food" 
supressed tears and doesnt eat anything

"woah, thats a lot of food"

supressed tears and doesnt eat anything

the fact i have to ask to make dinner 

the fact i have to ask to make dinner 

"Locked in room as a child"
"10 years later family complain you never leave it"

"Locked in room as a child"

"10 years later family complain you never leave it"

top text: likes ~50 pages of survivor rat memes

bottom text: still doubts whether own experiences were ‘real’ abuse

Top: “Why do you not want to introduce your new friend to us? You propably told them we abuse you!”

Bottom: “Uhm… Exactly!?”

Verbally abusive mother asks what’s wrong
"You think you’re sad? I’m sad too!"
——
My mother and grandmother may be loving guardians, but they are both verbally abusive and regularly berate me, my self-worth, and what I like to do. It’s almost like they don’t realize what they’re doing.
The other day I got into a conversation with my mother about bad grades (I had one F, three B’s, and an A…?) and she asked me what was wrong. When I began to explain to her how I was sad and where it came from, she cut me off and immediately began to cry about her job and grandma, saying “You think YOU have it bad? I have it worse!”
I’m not allowed to say anything other than “I’m fine” anymore.

Verbally abusive mother asks what’s wrong

"You think you’re sad? I’m sad too!"

——

My mother and grandmother may be loving guardians, but they are both verbally abusive and regularly berate me, my self-worth, and what I like to do. It’s almost like they don’t realize what they’re doing.

The other day I got into a conversation with my mother about bad grades (I had one F, three B’s, and an A…?) and she asked me what was wrong. When I began to explain to her how I was sad and where it came from, she cut me off and immediately began to cry about her job and grandma, saying “You think YOU have it bad? I have it worse!”

I’m not allowed to say anything other than “I’m fine” anymore.

My ex-father would rip up and destroy our toys in front of us when we were ‘bad’ and now that he’s gone I can’t throw out anything without getting triggered and remembering him. 

My ex-father would rip up and destroy our toys in front of us when we were ‘bad’ and now that he’s gone I can’t throw out anything without getting triggered and remembering him. 

Confronts parents about them emotionally abusing me
"You shouldn’t let it bother you." 
I was having dinner with my father and we started up a conversation that made me very uncomfortable and I finally confronted him about him and my mother emotionally abusing me for years. 
He told me that I was being over dramatic and also told me that I “shouldn’t let it bother me”, and that I should get over it. 

Confronts parents about them emotionally abusing me

"You shouldn’t let it bother you." 

I was having dinner with my father and we started up a conversation that made me very uncomfortable and I finally confronted him about him and my mother emotionally abusing me for years. 

He told me that I was being over dramatic and also told me that I “shouldn’t let it bother me”, and that I should get over it.